Quick read
Key points
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Self-harm refers to any behaviour where someone intentionally causes harm to themselves, often as a way of coping with overwhelming emotions, distress, or difficult experiences. It can affect people of any age, and while it isn't always linked to suicidal intent, it should always be taken seriously and met with compassion rather than judgement.
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Topic-specific prevention and risk reduction will be added during the article-specific evidence audit.
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If there is immediate danger or serious injury, call emergency services or go to your nearest emergency department right away
01 · Know
What is Self-Harm?
Self-harm refers to any behaviour where someone intentionally causes harm to themselves, often as a way of coping with overwhelming emotions, distress, or difficult experiences. It can affect people of any age, and while it isn't always linked to suicidal intent, it should always be taken seriously and met with compassion rather than judgement.
Self-harm is a sign that someone is struggling and needs support, not a sign of attention-seeking or weakness. With the right help, people who self-harm can find healthier ways to cope and recover well.
02 · Understand
Clinical context
Support is available right now, any time
In Ireland, Samaritans offers free, confidential support 24 hours a day, 7 days a week, on 116 123 — you don't need to be in crisis to call, and reaching out is always the right thing to do.
03 · Act
When and How to Seek Help
- 1If there is immediate danger or serious injury, call emergency services or go to your nearest emergency department right away
- 2Speak to your GP about how you're feeling and accessing further mental health support
- 3Contact Samaritans free on 116 123, any time, day or night, if you need someone to talk to right now
- 4If you're worried about someone else, gently let them know you've noticed and that you're there for them
04 · Prevent & manage
Practical steps
Reaching Out Is a Sign of Strength, Not Failure
Self-harm often comes from a place of significant emotional pain — seeking support, whether from a GP, a helpline, or someone you trust, is one of the most important and courageous steps toward feeling better.
- 1Reach out to someone you trust.Telling a friend, family member, or professional that you're struggling is often the first step toward getting the support you need.
- 2Speak to your GP.They can discuss appropriate mental health support and referrals, in a confidential, non-judgemental way.
- 3Call a support line when you need to talk.Samaritans (116 123, free, 24/7) is there for exactly these moments, whether or not it feels like a "crisis."
- 4Try to identify what you're feeling before it becomes overwhelming.Working with a therapist on recognising and naming difficult emotions early can help build other ways of coping over time.
- 5Be patient and compassionate with yourself.Recovery is a process, and support is there for as long as it takes — you deserve care and understanding, not judgement.
Evidence
References
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- HSE: Self-harm ↗
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BarnMD Bottom Line
Self-harm is a sign of real distress, not weakness, and effective support exists to help people find healthier ways to cope.
You can talk to Samaritans free, any time, day or night, on 116 123 — reaching out is always the right step.